PURE LOVE

I was inspired to write this post after reading this quote:

“We consider Love to be a relationship. We consider Love to be a feeling that takes place between two people. Love is not a relationship. Love is the dissolution of a relationship, it is the collapse of a relationship. It is not possible to Love another person. In the experience of Love the self and the other dissolve. That’s why Rumi said this beautiful thing, he said: ‘True Lovers never really meet. They’re in each other all along.’ Love is not a meeting of two people. It is the dissolution of the apparent separation between self and other and a revelation of the prior unity of these two apparently separate selves. So, Love is not an experience that the separate self has, it is the dissolution of the separate self, the revelation of reality, and the revelation of consciousness. Consciousness is Love.”

 ~ Rupert Spira

I felt like sharing with you a powerful experience I had that makes me understand what this quote says.  

Some years ago, I lived in a small indigenous village around the lake with few foreigners living there at that time. One of these foreigners, I am a little ashamed to confess that I really dislike after having weird interactions with him. He was asleep, limited by his logical mind, and moved mainly by basic instincts and desires. He always made fun of me because he didn’t understand my path and thought it was just about stupid beliefs. After some disrespectful treatment, I limited my interactions with him as much as I could in this small village.

One night, before going to bed, I realized I was missing a hug. I hadn’t had a real one for a while, and I know the healing effects of hugging. So, I went to bed wishing I had a real hug from someone. As I closed my eyes, this guy’s face appeared so clear in front of me. I thought: “Ew, not him!” And then, something amazing happened.

I felt how I suddenly left my body. I was just energy and started traveling, but not through space. It is not that easy to explain. I suddenly appeared in this guy’s room and saw him lying on his bed. Then, I saw how he also left his body and moved towards me. He was just energy, nothing that can be seen with the eye, but I knew it was his spirit. 

I could feel like an energetic human shape, even when it was not. His spirit hugged me, and at that moment, our energies dissolved in each other. There was no separation at all. All it was, was the most beautiful experience.

I need to stress that there are no words that can really describe this. Words can just help get an idea. What I experienced was so pure, and it was not human. It was Love in all its essence! Divine, immaculate, exquisite, beyond unconditional, and so powerful! I couldn’t believe I was experiencing something that pure. 

It is a kind of Love that I had never felt before as a human. I understand that’s why I needed to have an out-of-body experience.

I recently met a woman in a reading that had a similar experience. She had it in the dream state. She also told me that there are no words to express it, and she hadn’t felt anything like that in her waking state. 

I completely dissolved in this Love and forgot about everything for a while, even the idea of myself. But at some point, the mind and the sense of self came back. I thought: “This came from him?” And that thought abruptly kicked me back into my body. I suddenly sat on the bed with my cheeks wet in tears from that mesmerizing experience. It took me a while to assimilate the whole experience. I was having a hard time putting the guy and that pure feeling together. 

How come something so pure and divine could come from someone like him? And then I understood I needed to experience this from the image of someone I disliked to have the contrast and understand what the experience was about. If I had that experience with a loved one, it wouldn’t have impacted me. It would have been just a beautiful experience, and I would have thought that Love came from the connection with that person. 

This experience was about understanding WE ALL ARE THAT! I mean, the real essence of us is that pure Love. The images, beliefs, conditionings, projections, and stories we have about ourselves and others are made up. They are not real. They serve a purpose though, but our essence is nothing like that. There is no separation in real Love. This inner understanding brought a beautiful sense of compassion towards this guy and me.

After this, I tried to be this guy’s friend, coming from that loving space. But soon, I realized it was not going to be possible. We still had our own identities and wounds that separated us.

I have felt other people’s souls and spirits before, perceiving them as beautiful and pure. But this experience was powerful and pushed me to another level of understanding.

A while after this experience, I had another one that was also powerful in a different way. I met someone whose spirit came to me months before meeting him in person. It was a very similar feeling of pure Love, unconditional and neutral. To make it short, I had an interaction with his spirit for a couple of years, while the long-distance friendship with the person itself was different. It was challenging for me to experience this contrast. 

I honored the experience of Love where we connected in spirit. It was not about me or him as people. But I guess there can be confusion when someone tells another person: “I Love you”, if the other person doesn’t understand where that Love comes from. I was reminded again how our false identities, conditionings, and wounds overshadow this pure interaction.

We have our own human concept of what Love is. But that one is limited by each one’s conditionings.

I felt like sharing this because of the importance of the path of remembering what we really are and working towards losing the false identities. We keep identifying ourselves with what we are not, that we are not able to see and experience what we really are and where we come from: That Pure and Divine Love! A Love without fear, conditionings, separation, or expectation. A Love that arises from pure Consciousness.

Thank you for your existence, dear reader. 

With appreciation and respect,

Jen.

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Me inspiré para escribir este post después de leer esta cita:

“Consideramos que el Amor es una relación. Consideramos que el amor es un sentimiento que tiene lugar entre dos personas. El amor no es una relación. El amor es la disolución de una relación, es el colapso de una relación. No es posible amar a otra persona. En la experiencia del Amor el yo y el otro se disuelven. Por eso Rumi dijo esta hermosa cosa, dijo: ‘Los verdaderos Amantes nunca se encuentran realmente. Están en el otro todo el tiempo’. El amor no es un encuentro entre dos personas. Es la disolución de la aparente separación entre el yo y el otro y una revelación de la unidad previa de estos dos seres aparentemente separados. Por lo tanto, el Amor no es una experiencia que tiene el yo separado, es la disolución del yo separado, la revelación de la realidad y la revelación de la conciencia. La conciencia es Amor”.

 ~ Rupert Spira

Sentí el compartir una poderosa experiencia que tuve y que me hace comprender lo que dice esta cita. 

Hace algunos años, vivía en un pequeño pueblo indígena alrededor del lago con pocos extranjeros que vivían allí en ese momento. Uno de estos extranjeros, me da un poco de pena confesar que realmente me desagrada después de tener interacciones extrañas con él. Estaba dormido, limitado por su mente lógica, y se movía principalmente por instintos y deseos básicos. Siempre se burlaba de mí porque no entendía mi camino y pensaba que sólo se trataba de creencias estúpidas (sus palabras). Después de tratos irrespetuosos, limité mis interacciones con él tanto como pude en este pequeño pueblo.

Una noche, antes de acostarme, me di cuenta de que extrañaba recibir un abrazo de alguien. Hacía tiempo que no recibía uno de verdad, y conozco los efectos sanadores de los abrazos. Así que me fui a la cama deseando tener un abrazo de verdad de alguien. Cuando cerré los ojos, la cara de este tipo apareció tan clara frente a mí. Pensé: “¡Guácala, él no!” Y entonces, sucedió algo increíble.

Sentí cómo de repente dejaba mi cuerpo. Sólo era energía y empecé a viajar, pero no a través del espacio. No es tan fácil de explicar. De repente aparecí en la habitación de este tipo y lo vi acostado en su cama. Entonces, vi cómo él también dejaba su cuerpo y se acercaba a mí. Era sólo energía, nada que se pueda ver con el ojo, pero sabía que era su espíritu.

Podía sentir como una forma humana energética, incluso cuando no lo era. Su espíritu me abrazó, y en ese momento, nuestras energías se disolvieron entre sí. No había ninguna separación. Todo lo que era, fue la más hermosa experiencia.

Tengo que subrayar que no hay palabras que puedan describir realmente esto. Las palabras sólo pueden ayudar a hacerse una idea. Lo que experimenté fue tan puro, y no era humano. ¡Era Amor en toda su esencia! Divino, inmaculado, exquisito, más allá de lo incondicional, ¡y tan poderoso! No podía creer que estuviera experimentando algo tan puro.

Es un tipo de Amor que nunca había sentido antes como humana. Entiendo que por eso necesitaba tener una experiencia extracorporal.

Hace poco conocí a una mujer en una lectura que tuvo una experiencia similar. Ella la tuvo en el estado de sueño. También me dijo que no hay palabras para expresarlo, y que no había sentido nada parecido en su estado de vigilia.

Me disolví completamente en este Amor y me olvidé de todo por un momento, incluso de la idea de mí misma. Pero en algún momento, la mente y el sentido del yo volvieron. Pensé: “¿Esto vino de él?” Y ese pensamiento me devolvió bruscamente a mi cuerpo. De repente me senté en la cama con las mejillas mojadas en lágrimas por aquella experiencia hipnótica. Me llevó un tiempo asimilar toda la experiencia. Me costaba conectar a esa persona con esa sensación pura.

¿Cómo es posible que algo tan puro y divino podía venir de alguien como él? Y entonces comprendí que necesitaba experimentarlo desde la imagen de alguien que me desagradaba para tener el contraste y entender de qué se trataba la experiencia. Si hubiera tenido esa experiencia con un ser querido, no me habría impactado. Habría sido sólo una experiencia hermosa, y habría pensado que el Amor provenía de la conexión con esa persona.

Esta experiencia consistió en comprender que ¡TOD@S SOMOS ESO! Es decir, la verdadera esencia de nosotr@s es ese Amor puro. Las imágenes, las creencias, los condicionamientos, las proyecciones y las historias que tenemos sobre nosotr@s mism@s y l@s demás son inventadas. No son reales. Sin embargo, sirven para un propósito, pero nuestra esencia no es nada de eso. No hay separación en el Amor real. Este entendimiento interno trajo un hermoso sentido de compasión hacia este tipo y hacia mí.

Después de esto, traté de ser amiga de este tipo, viniendo de ese espacio amoroso. Pero pronto me di cuenta de que no iba a ser posible. Todavía teníamos nuestras propias identidades y heridas que nos separaban.

Ya había sentido antes las almas y los espíritus de otras personas, percibiéndolos como hermosos y puros. Pero esta experiencia fue poderosa y me llevó a otro nivel de comprensión.

Un tiempo después de esta experiencia, tuve otra que también fue poderosa de una manera diferente. Conocí a alguien cuyo espíritu vino a mí meses antes de conocerlo en persona. Fue un sentimiento muy similar de Amor puro, incondicional y neutral. Tuve una interacción con su espíritu durante un par de años, mientras que la amistad a distancia con la persona en sí fue diferente. Fue un reto para mí experimentar este contraste.

Honré la experiencia del Amor donde nos conectábamos en espíritu. No se trataba de mí ni de él como personas. Pero supongo que puede haber confusión cuando alguien le dice a otra persona: “Te Quiero”, si la otra persona no entiende de dónde viene ese Amor. Volví a recordar cómo nuestras falsas identidades, condicionamientos y heridas ensombrecen esta interacción pura.

Tenemos nuestro propio concepto humano de lo que es el Amor. Pero ese está limitado por los condicionamientos de cada un@.

Quise compartir esto por la importancia del camino de recordar lo que realmente somos y trabajar para perder las falsas identidades. Nos seguimos identificando con lo que no somos, que no somos capaces de ver y experimentar lo que realmente somos y de dónde venimos: ¡Ese Amor Puro y Divino! Un Amor sin miedo, sin condicionamientos, sin separación, sin expectativas. Un Amor que surge de la Conciencia pura.

Gracias por tu existencia, querid@ lector(a).

Con aprecio y respeto,

Jen.

4 thoughts on “PURE LOVE

  1. Debra Malmos

    Jen, Thank you for sharing. It reminds me how One Divine Thought can change us beyond understanding. in lak’ech, Debra

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  2. Audwin Trapman

    This is a truly awakening experience Jen! I have had awakening experiences that have shifted how I see Humanity as well, but they were with my own energies and inward focused, and more to do with human potential of what great Beings of Light we are…. I am going to ask to experience the energy experience that you had, of the other, with an open heart! That would be awesome to experience! Thanks for sharing this experience!

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    1. Jen Soto Post author

      Thank you very much for sharing, Audwin! The experience was about the dissolution of “the other” as a separate. The other served just as a mirror for my mind because, in our human experience sometimes it is easier to see it in others, than in us. But ultimately, we all are the same consciousness experiencing itself in infinite possibilities we call “us and others”. Lately, I’ve been coming to experience that Love (with a capital L) is a very high frequency, not just a feeling. Thank you for sharing your gifts.

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      1. Andrés

        Yes, Jen, what you describe is one of the 10 powers of the universe as described by Brian Swimme… Interconnectedness. At the quantum level, this concept is so radical, there is no such thing as separation. Your experience with this man who you are not able to connect with on this temporal limited level and yet you were able to have such a precious mystical connection in spirit realm is such a beautiful example of radical interconnectedness.

        And even though confusion emerged when expressing connection with the words “I Love You” to someone who was not ready to hear them on one level — on another level that love can be (and already is) expressed and received, just like you already experienced with the beautiful spiritual hug with someone you do not feel any connection to in this day to day world we currently find ourselves in. What a beautiful gift to read the wisdom and heart that comes across with your words.

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